Someone has done you wrong. Anger sets in and you jump the gun. You’ve tried everything in the “book” to make things right and they don’t go right, so an unrational person may take matters into her own hands and make them how they feel things should be. (speaking from experience here).
The worse thing you can do is harness that anger and send it out in a spell. Such spells contain so much power – something is going to go wrong and I don’t mean witchy is going to get a blister from hot wax.
Other things in your life are going awry and you want to change those things to. Make them better! There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. I mean you’re the type of person who would help anyone they could. Even if it is just lending an ear.
Whilst there is no magick formula to win the lottery there are many ways to get what you want, but you have to believe in yourself. If you don’t have that, don’t bother, until you do. You are just setting your SELF up for failure and another night full of crying the blues.
For myself, simple “want” doesn’t get me what I want. I have to feel it. Usually that passion, for myself, involves much heartache, tears and finally anger. You can’t create good while you have tears running down your face or a stress headache running up the back of your neck.
For good things to happen you must feel good. If you don’t feel good about your self or your situation, then you’re not going to have any positive results, why? Because every negative thought cancels out any positive. Considering the fact that thinking negative is alot simpler than thinking positive – when you are in a some what of a desperate situation.
Does this mean we aren’t supposed to have things we want and desire? Perhaps feeling that way is what sets us up for failure – in ALL things. To feel not worthy enough to have what we want.
I think everyone truly deserves to be happy and find happiness. Perhaps some of lifes little obstacles.. well MOST of lifes little obstacles – could be caused by ones own actions. We have to be responsible for the life we lead.
It’s easy for me to reach out from the depths of depression, anger or whatever OTHER negative emotion I might be feeling and blame someone ELSE… but while I am blaming someone ELSE, who was the reason that someone else is involved in this? My own self. I brought this into my life and I just need to own it. Forgive it. Release it. I don’t need to divorce. What would that do? Allow me to find someone else? Sure why not. Will it work? Doubt it. I haven’t fixed the problem – myself. Not to mention all additional problems that come along with a divorce *shudders*
Trust me the older you get and the more you harbor ill will the harder it is going to be to get rid of it.
I also feel it is a really BAD idea to try to cast a spell during this state of mind – if passion is what drives you – and chances are it does. You don’t know how many times I have wanted to.. but I always – talk myself out of it, just as fast as I start to think about it. Something really horrible could happen to someone I actually care about and I could not live with the outcome of that.
So in other words no matter how angry you are at someone or a situation – just dont do it. For example: as much as I blame someone else for my own BS, that person will no doubt get the wrath.. no matter how carefully you “word” something.
Instead of doing something you will regret later you need to – and I need to – separate yourself from the situation.
Meditate.
That is an excellent way of at least getting out of the situation for a little while. Perhaps making meditation a daily ritual will help. Medicating ones self won’t do the trick. Nothing but finding peace – will. Soul search, ask your higher self for guidance. I find that Chakra meditations help at least for a little while. Self hypnosis even has its perks. I have taken it upon myself to meditate 40 minutes a day. Some days if i can find the time and the quiet – I will do it again. I will go to bed at night and listen to a meditation on positive thoughts as i go to sleep. Binaural beats are supposed to be helpful however I haven’t found any I “trust” lol Not so sure I want subliminal messages flowing through my mind. Not knowing what is being programmed into my mind is not something I want to deal with.
Also, writing helps. Start your own blog. There’s plenty of free space out on the internet including wordpress.com , blogger.com etc. You can even write long looooooong notes on your facebook page..if you don’t mind airing out your dirty laundry – if you do, make your posts private. Me, I am an open book. Why? Not because I am an attention whore, but because I truly can use the help and guidance.
Positive affirmations are also helpful. Trying to flood your thoughts with good thoughts instead of negative thoughts. It is so easy to stumble and think negative. It’s much simpler to put yourself down than to build yourself up. What was it they used to say about Rome? =)
This may not be a helpful post to too many, but if you’re hurting, maybe you might take something good, from it.
Blessed Be,
The Crazy Witch =)
